Hey there, I’m Rebecca! I’m a family & divorce mediator with focused training in conflict management, a certified divorce coach, and your co-parenting specialist.
As family & divorce mediator, co-parenting specialist, and divorce coach, I’m dedicated to helping you do what’s best for your children. My experience as a child of divorce inspires me to advocate for a child-centered approach—I bring the child's voice directly to you. I know what it feels like to be in the middle, and I use that insight to help you lead with the empathy and awareness your children deserve. My practice is dedicated to helping you protect what matters most: your children.
Through my own life experience and professional training, I’ve seen firsthand what helps children thrive during and after a divorce. I’ve also seen what causes harm. Research is clear on this: the greatest indicator of how children will fare long-term is the degree and duration of parental conflict.
This is where the work begins.
You may be feeling exhausted and powerless, thinking, “How can I reduce conflict when I can't control my co-parent's behavior?”
This is the most common and difficult challenge co-parents face. The solution isn't about changing them; it's about empowering you. One parent has the ability to fundamentally change the dynamic. My focus is on giving you the tools to manage what is within your control, create systems that reduce friction, and protect your peace so you can be the parent your children need.
What does being “child-centered” actually mean?
Parents often have different ideas about what’s best for the kids. A truly child-centered approach means making choices guided by these core principles:
Reducing their stress: Actively working to shield them from arguments and emotional turmoil.
Understanding their unique needs: Recognizing that they are individuals with their own experience of the divorce.
Empathizing with their experience: Putting yourself in their shoes to understand their fears, worries, and hopes.
Choosing your discomfort over theirs: Prioritizing their emotional stability and security, even when it’s difficult or inconvenient for you.
This is the work I help you do: to create and protect your peace, to consistently show up as your best self for your kids, and to stay connected to the values you want to instill in them.
Whether you're just considering divorce or are deep in the co-parenting trenches, I’m here to provide individual support that helps you:
Navigate difficult decisions with a clear, child-focused framework.
Avoid conflict by creating boundaries and communication systems that work for you.
Model the resilient, loving behavior you want your children to learn.
This isn’t an impossible fantasy. It’s a reality you can build, one step at a time. It starts with the steps you take today.
Let’s protect what matters most.
Protect what matters by doing what’s best for your family through child-centered co-parenting.
Book your free consult today to see how I can help you & your family thrive before, during, and beyond divorce.