The Antidote to Co-Parenting Chaos: Your Child-Centered Co-Parenting Plan

Stop the constant negotiations and exhausting arguments. A comprehensive plan is your strategic playbook for creating clarity, minimizing conflict, and giving your children the stability they deserve.

The small things become the big things. A text about a holiday. An email about a doctor's appointment. A last-minute change of plans. In a difficult co-parenting dynamic, each of these is a potential landmine for conflict, leaving you feeling drained and anxious. You know that having a clear plan is the answer, but the idea of creating one with an uncooperative co-parent can feel impossible.

This is where my approach is different.

A co-parenting plan isn't a peace treaty that requires you to be friends. It’s a functional, business-like agreement designed to drastically reduce the amount of communication and negotiation you have to do. Its purpose is to anticipate future problems and create clear, simple rules of engagement so you don't have to argue about them later. It is your single most powerful tool for disengaging from the chaos.

A Strong Plan Empowers You To:

  • Drastically Reduce Day-to-Day Conflict: By having clear, written protocols for schedules, communication, and decision-making, there is simply less to argue about.

  • Create Predictability and Security for Your Kids: When children know what to expect, they feel safe. A plan creates a reliable structure they can count on, no matter what is going on between their parents.

  • Protect Your Boundaries and Your Peace: Stop the endless back-and-forth. The plan becomes the playbook you can refer back to, allowing you to hold boundaries calmly and firmly.

Make Child-Centered Decisions Proactively: Address all the issues you haven’t even thought of yet—from introducing new partners to social media use—from a place of clarity, not crisis.

Two Paths to a Rock-Solid Plan

Every situation is unique. That's why I offer two distinct approaches to creating your plan, ensuring there is a solution that fits your reality.

  1. Child-Centered Mediation (For two willing parents)
    If your co-parent is willing to participate productively, I will guide you both through a structured mediation process. My role as a neutral third party is to keep the focus squarely on the children's best interests, helping you build a comprehensive and mutually agreeable plan that keeps you out of court.

  2. Strategic Co-Parenting Planning (For one parent)
    If you are dealing with a high-conflict or uncooperative co-parent, we will work together one-on-one. I will use my expertise to help you develop a thorough, strategic, and child-centered plan. This document becomes your clear, proactive proposal to present through lawyers or in court, demonstrating your commitment to a stable solution and putting you in a position of strength.

Your comprehensive plan will be a roadmap for your two-household family, covering critical details like:

  • Detailed Parenting Time Schedules (weekdays, weekends, holidays, vacations)

  • Clear Communication Protocols (how, when, and what to communicate about)

  • Decision-Making Authority (education, medical, extracurriculars)

  • Travel, Introducing New Partners, Social Media, and more.

Imagine a holiday season with no arguments about pickup times because the schedule was decided a year ago. This isn't about forcing a friendship; it's about creating a functional system that works for your kids and protects your peace.

Custom child-centered co-parenting plans start at $2800.

Book your free consult today to see how I can help you & your family thrive before, during, and beyond divorce.