A child-centered approach for parents navigating divorce.

When Co-Parenting Feels Like a Battle, Find Your Peace.

Through one-on-one virtual sessions, you will learn to manage conflict, protect your sanity, and show up as the calm, steady parent your children need— no matter what your co-parent does.

Imagine this: A provocative email lands in your inbox from your co-parent. Instead of your stomach tightening with anxiety, you feel calm. You have a system for this. You know exactly how to respond—or when not to—without sacrificing your sanity.

If that feels like a fantasy, you're not alone. When your co-parent is unpredictable, dismissive, or unwilling to engage, it feels like you're fighting a losing battle. You worry about the toll the constant conflict is taking on your children. You know that their well-being is the most important thing, but you feel powerless to change the dynamic when you're the only one trying.

The most important shift isn't getting your co-parent to change, it's realizing you don't have to.

The research is clear: the greatest indicator of how children will fare long-term after a divorce is the degree and duration of parental conflict they are exposed to.

The good news? One parent has the power to lower that temperature. The focus isn't on the uncontrollable behavior of your co-parent. It's on what you can do to disengage from the chaos and create a stable, loving home for your children. This is where the real work begins.

What “Child-Centered” Really Means

Parents often have different ideas about what’s “best for the kids.” A truly child-centered approach means shifting the focus from the conflict to these core principles:

  • Reducing their stress: Actively working to shield them from arguments and emotional turmoil.

  • Understanding their unique needs: Recognizing they are individuals with their own experience of the divorce.

  • Empathizing with their experience: Putting yourself in their shoes to understand their fears, worries, and hopes.

  • Choosing your discomfort over theirs: Prioritizing their emotional stability, even when it’s difficult for you.

Adopting these principles is how you lower the temperature and create the stable, loving home your children need to thrive.

I know this is possible because I've helped many parents turn this overwhelming challenge into a source of personal strength—creating lasting peace for themselves and their children.

Hey there, I’m Rebecca! I’m a family & divorce mediator with focused training in conflict management, a certified divorce coach, and your co-parenting specialist. My expertise is in helping you manage your role within your co-parenting dynamic.

I’ll show you how to create systems that ensure your child has structure, flexibility, and stability between both homes. With me at your side, you will gain the tools to confidently navigate conflict and protect your children from stress—all while fostering a quality parent-child relationship built on your own terms.

Helping you effectively protect kids through coaching, child-centered plans, & expert partnerships.

Find the Right Support to Protect Your Kids and Your Peace

My coaching is designed to help you make sound, child-centered decisions from a place of clarity, not crisis. This approach empowers you to manage conflict constructively, often preventing the kind of emotional escalations that lead to draining and expensive legal disputes.

Coaching for Dads

Navigate the unique challenges of co-parenting as a father. Get strategies to stay steady through chaos, maintain a strong connection with your kids, and lead with quiet confidence—no matter how unpredictable the situation feels.

Coaching for Moms

Find relief from the mental and emotional load of holding it all together. We’ll work to set firm boundaries, and disengage from conflict so you can be the calm, present mother you want to be.

Your Co-Parenting Plan

Create a clear, custom, and child-centered roadmap for your two-household family. This plan is your playbook, giving you support and a clear path forward for all the issues you haven’t even thought of yet.

Partner With Rebecca

I love collaborating with experts who are also passionate about protecting kids through difficult life transitions like divorce. If that sounds like you, become a trusted partner to whom I regularly send referrals.

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Have the confidence you’re doing what’s best for your family through child-centered co-parenting.

Book your free consult today to see how I can help you & your family thrive before, during, and beyond divorce.